This might sound heartless to some people, but i feel bad for psychically & mentally abused girls to a point …

When they forgive that significant other and go back to them, they have no right to bitch and moan about how bad that person is after if they do it again. You are no better than the person who did that to you. “but, i love him/her” doesn’t cut it. it’s not cute, it’s not romantic on your part to construct it again if they decided to destruct it. i think the word is desperate and if the person gave 2 fucks about you, they wouldn’t have done it in the first place. 

Get up, brush your shoulders off, onto the next… or better yet, focus on yourself. It takes patience to love and it takes time to be everlasting, that person didn’t care enough to acknowledge that.